Have you been wondering about the reason why many people achieve whatever they want in a short period of time, or even worse why they have the ability to get into success experiences without apparent any effort? Have you ever been wondering if is there something wrong with you, because you have struggled enough to achieve your goals and the result the most of times is failed?
If you have answered positively the two questions made above you have a condition that could be compromising your overall wellness and potentially it could have a negative impact on your health because at the extent you have the impossibility to enjoy other’s success nothing will be enough to fulfill your expectations having as a result that you constantly live in bitterness given that always somebody will be better than you at the end.
It is an irrational thought to believe that there are nobody better than you, probably better weight, better hair, with more money, better families, or perhaps more talented, the impossibility to process that others could be better than you in all senses is a sign that we need to stop in our busy day and think that we are feeling envy assuming the consequences for it, avoiding that envy destroy the latest part of our self –esteem isolating us even more.
There is nobody in the world that can say that they have never felt envy, in fact, most of the people are not willing to admit that are feeling envy, they use all a complicated analysis to explain that they are not feeling envy, but it is common to see how are criticizing others more than advisable hiding their true intentions under constructive criticism, but the truth is that when a person allows that these negative feelings emerge is giving all credit to what his/her subject of criticism.
Most of the times people who are persistently criticizing others are seeking to make them look bad or unattractive are trying to improve how they really feel inside and in a certain way earn at least one battle against the envy. However, it is more complex than that, people who are experienced in this constant cycle of up and downs are in a considerable risk to have health issues or get worse the existing ones such as hypertension, arrhythmias, depression, skin disorders etc; than people who are genuinely happy for the other's happiness. Because, people who have learned to enjoy with others success have the tendency to have really good interpersonal relationships and lasting friendships what is beneficial to their health, but above all, they have learned to enjoy themselves even with their weaknesses and uncertainties believing that they are unique under the conviction that this is the real secret of the happiness
The most important message of this article is that we have to learn that how is our inside is essential to be better outside, it is not a meaningful effort to take care our health eat tons of green salad and spend our whole life in a gym when we have not the possibility to be happy with the others success closing ourselves the door of our jails of envy sinking increasingly in a dangerous cycle of self-destruction.
Take time to self-assess and get rid of all those negative feelings of comparing yourself to others, that have impeded you to achieve your true potential for so long time deceiving you about your true worth, it is time to leave behind all harmful behavior to improve your health at the end.
